I don’t like it when I think too much about others expectations of me.
It’s a trap! *and I said that like in Star Wars, by the way*
But you know, sometimes I fall into it as well. I become a little too preoccupied with playing the game, or behaving how others expect me too. And then I get frustrated and grumpy.
It takes a while, but usually I figure out why this is. Then I have to right the train.
Now I’m not talking major things here. Just little things. But still, they add up.
It’s usually a matter of a few honest conversations – no biggie. Nothing earth shattering, or life changing, just a matter of, “Hey, this is where I’m at and this is what I think.”
Because to be fair. I’m a straight shooter. Mostly because I have neither the energy, nor the inclination, to be anything but.
Anything else feels inauthentic.
Nora Gouma
October 16, 2015Such lovely dress, beautiful colors too, I love it, thank you for sharing, you look very pretty!!!
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Joanna Haughton
October 19, 2015Thank you. It's a fantastic dress and I love the bold red.
Pamela M. M. Berkeley
October 17, 2015I'm the same way.
Joanna Haughton
October 19, 2015Good. I like it that way from others too. Keeps things simple.